The month of the dead

Nov 8th, 2011 | By | Category: Spirituality

‘The sky is at ground level’, a friend commented.

It was.  There was a persistent  drizzle and the lights were on before half past four.  It was not hard to imagine why this month had held a dark place in the imaginations of the ancients.  There was a sense of being enclosed, trapped.  It was a day that recaptured a moment on a November day in 1989.

I had called at his home before and got no answer.  Being afflicted with a guilty conscience, I tried again, though it took three months to do so.  Stories of the man’s temper and rough tongue filled me with trepidation about returning.  Again, there was no answer.

With relief, I turned from the door and headed down a driveway that had once been the track bed of a railway.  Reaching the entrance gates, which had once been level crossing gates, I met a car swinging around the corner. The driver wound down his window with vigour. “Who are you?”

“I’m the new Rector”.

“What do you want?”

“Nothing.  I was just calling to see how you were”.

“None of your b_____ business”.


“You’d better come in for a drink”.

We went into his very compact home.  “Sit down there!”, he barked.

I sat while he raged about life and the world in general.  “You’ll have to drink this.  It’s all I have”.  He handed me a glass of blackberry wine.

“I make this myself, 350 gallons a year”.

I must have misheard.  “Sorry”, I said, “how much?”

“350 gallons.  Do you not listen when people talk to you?  Of course, I give some of it away”.

Doing quick mental arithmetic; he could give away seven-eighths of it and still have enough left over to drink a pint of it almost every day.  I wondered if he was ever safe to drive.

I did not venture further questions.  The occasional nod and “Yes” was sufficient to accompany him in his discourse on the stupidity of everyone with whom he had ever had dealings, which at least diverted attention from my glass.

Suddenly, he stopped. “I hate this time of year”.

“Didn’t they used to call it the month of the dead?”

“Did they? If they did, they were right.”

It was the first Monday in November.  He pondered some thought deep in his mind.

It seemed an opportune moment to make my excuses and leave before the maudlin mood brought on one of the tempers for which he was notorious.

“Will you not have another glass of wine?”

“Thank you”, I said, “but I must go”.

The parting included a tour of his workshop, an old engine shed twice the size of his home.  There were many more memories recalled as he wandered around, at times touching machinery as if making some physical contact with the past.

Finally, I headed back down the drive; relieved at having escaped without a mauling and without having to drink more of the potent purple liquid.

It was grey.  The sky was grey; the landscape was grey; even the light seemed without life on that November afternoon.  The month of the dead, it wouldn’t have been hard to see how the idea arose.



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  1. I think I know some of those people he was talking about! The wine sounds like a necessity.

  2. But how much blackberry wine could you drink? 😉

  3. Potent was it? Perhaps it also fuelled his car.

  4. None, although Iwish I could it sounds delicious (and good for you – all those blackberries!)

  5. I think the potency of the wine probably negated any possible beneficial effects to the health that might have come from the blackberries!

    He was the only parishioner I have had who received an obituary in the Daily Telegraph when he died.

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