How they hate one another

Nov 14th, 2013 | By | Category: Church of Ireland Comment

“How they love one another”, wrote Tertullian, the Second Century Christian writer, suggesting the words were pagan comment on the behaviour of Christians. Perhaps Tertullian was being creative with the truth; more likely, it was just that some of our parishes would have been beyond his imagination; in many places, “how they love one another” is not an observation that comes to mind. Too often, if intense emotion is encountered, rather than arising from feelings of brotherly love, it is likely to be a deep dislike of certain others in the parish, a dislike concealed behind, at best, a silent scowl. It is hardly the stuff one would expect of people professing themselves to be followers of Jesus of Nazareth.

The gulf between being people noticed because of love for one another, and the reality encountered in many places, often arises from the failure by the church to understand the real religious motivations of many of its members. Thirty years ago, Patrick Semple, teaching at the Church of Ireland Theological College, would talk about the “folk religion” that he believed pervaded much of the church. Semple saw the beliefs of many people explicable in simple terms: “if the tribal priest performs the tribal ritual in the tribal shrine, then the well-being of the tribe is safeguarded”.

In theological college days, the notion that much of our community held beliefs that fell far short of anything recognizably Christian seemed a step too far, it seemed an almost cynical perspective, yet it was an approach that explained a lot of the tensions and difficulties in the church. The notion of a “tribal priest” who conformed to a particular preconception explained negative attitudes to changes in ministry, negative attitudes to the ministry of women, negative attitudes to non-stipendiary clergy,  negative attitudes to lay readers. The idea of a “tribal ritual” that should be maintained explained the fierce and frequently irrational resistance to changes in the prayer book, even dislike of hymn books that did not have the traditional black cover. The attachment to a “tribal shrine” explained the visceral reaction to proposals to close churches, it explained the personal abuse to which some clergy were subjected, it explained the threats one bishop received through the post.

Folk religion is devoid of ethical content, it demands nothing more than the outward stuff of religion:priest, ritual, shrine. Talk of Jesus of Nazareth, talk of what he taught, invites blank looks.  What has Jesus to do with it? Speaking at a meeting recently, pointing out that a man’s suggestion was directly contrary to what Jesus taught, brought the response that the man’s way was the only one that worked. “But if we ignore Jesus, then why do we have a church?” I asked him. My question fell on deaf ears.

Folk religion explains how people who claim to belong to a church can hate others; and think it a religious thing to do so.

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  1. Insightful.

  2. Alarming, when one considers its implications.

  3. Very good piece Ian. How to cope with “tribalism” is the difficult part.

  4. I have been told that I am not qualified to speak about CoI affairs since I am not ‘one of us’. Nevertheless, I see tribalism in action and experience its virulence. It is not confined to the CoI but it is most certainly at its most unpleasant here. It’s difficult to know how to deal with it other than by moving somewhere less unpleasant. IS there such a place? Maybe it’s a self limiting problem: the most pernicious tribalists will one day be dead. Will they be replaced?

  5. Being as English as your good self, I am not sure why you haven’t dismissed that comment about not being ‘one of us’ as the piece of nonsense it was – if the comment was true, it does not matter from whom it came; if it was not, it should have been critiqued in a proper way.

    Being a self-identifying evangelical, I believe the church will endure, that does not mean the Church of Ireland will endure. My challenge to people is always whether their conception of the church matches that of Jesus, if it does not, then what is the point of it?

    I think the point is much harder to argue from a liberal position, where, in the context of relativism, it is quite reasonable for people to argue their ideas are as valid as those of any church leaders.

  6. I was making the comment with my tongue firmly opposed to the buccal mucosa, though it would be interesting to establish how the increasing number of clergy who have not been trained in Braemor Park cope with the sometimes less than broad minded and generous attitudes that they might encounter. I agree with you about the future: the church will endure. Resurrection follows death. Quite what JC has to do with the institutional church is a moot point.

  7. People have for decades predicted the death of the institutional church – I always find its persistence, despite itself, to be a sign of God’s grace.

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