Renewing my NHS prescription card, I realized it was November. Of course, I had written the number “11” countless times, I had even written the word “November” on various whiteboards in various classrooms, but it hadn’t really registered that we were in the most gloomy of months and that I hadn’t noticed until I looked at the expiry date on my card. It is hard to imagine Rex would have let four weeks pass unnoticed.
It is three decades since I encountered Rex. I had called at his home before and got no answer. Being afflicted with a guilty conscience, I tried again, although it took three months before I had plucked up courage to do so. Stories of the his temper and rough tongue filled me with trepidation about returning. Again, there was no answer. With relief, I turned from the door and headed down a driveway that had once been the track bed of a railway. Reaching the entrance gates, which had once been level crossing gates, I met a car swinging around the corner. The driver wound down his window with vigour. “Who are you?”
“I’m the new Rector”.
“What do you want?”
“Nothing. I was just calling to see how you were”.
“None of your bloody business”.
“You’d better come in for a drink”.
We went into his very compact home. “Sit down there!”, he barked.
I sat while he raged about life and the world in general. “You’ll have to drink this. It’s all I have”. He handed me a glass of blackberry wine. “I make this myself, 350 gallons a year”.
I must have misheard. “Sorry”, I said, “how much?”
“350 gallons. Do you not listen when people talk to you? Of course, I give some of it away”.
Doing quick mental arithmetic; he could have given away seven-eighths of it and still have enough left over to drink a pint of it almost every day. I wondered if he was ever safe to drive. I did not venture further questions. The occasional nod and “Yes” were sufficient to accompany him in his discourse on the stupidity of everyone with whom he had ever had dealings, which at least diverted his attention from my glass.
Suddenly, he stopped. “I hate this time of year”.
“Didn’t they used to call it the month of the dead?” I asked, feeling it a sympathetic response
“Did they? If they did, they were right.”
It was the first Monday in November. He pondered some thought deep in his mind. It seemed an opportune moment to make my excuses and leave before the maudlin mood brought on one of the tempers for which he was notorious.
“Will you not have another glass of wine?”
“Thank you”, I said, “but I must go”.
The parting included a tour of his workshop, an old engine shed twice the size of his home. There were many more memories recalled as he wandered around, at times touching machinery as if making some physical contact with the past. Finally, I headed back down the drive; relieved at having escaped without a mauling and without having to drink more of the potent purple liquid. It was grey that afternoon. The sky was grey; the landscape was grey; even the light seemed without life.
The month of the dead, it wouldn’t have been hard to see how the idea arose. It is good to have got through it without even noticing that it was there.
Halloween was the start of the ancient year not the 1st of January, or the 21st of December for that matter. Samhain and it’s focus on the light, albeit artificial light brought people through that last bit of the year when Vit D was causing a profound drop in mood. Indeed for the very first time this year I’ve noticed the celebrations for Christmas in central Europe begin soon after Halloween, and are in full swing a month out from the 25th of Dec. Frankly I was mistaken in my thinking about Aldi and Lidi doing a social good by having stock in so far out. When it’s merely a stocking expediency for them.
The shifting forward of Christmas does leave January, including Blue Monday, as a very grey time, for lots of people. I always enjoy the lengthening days.